Orgasm is still often
seen as the only goal of sex that can only be achieved through penile
penetration. In fact, orgasm without sex is not impossible. Climax can be
achieved by men and women in various ways without having to insert the penis
into the vagina, anus (anal sex), or into the mouth (oral sex). Curious?
How to orgasm without penetration sex
There are couples or not,
you can just reach orgasm without sex through the following three unexpected
ways:
1. Masturbation
Masturbation is a great
way for men and women to reach orgasm without penetrating sex. Even for women,
masturbation by stimulating the clitoris through the technique of 'fingering'
(fingering) is far more effective in bringing about a climax than with penile
penetration.
Why is the clitoris?
The clitoris is the most
sensitive area in a woman's body that is equipped with more than 8 thousand
nerve endings that are very sensitive to stimulation.
Do not forget too,
masturbation while stimulating the breast area, especially the nipples, can
help you orgasm faster without having sex.
While for men, it's no
secret if masturbation is one of the fastest ways to reach climax.
As an alternative, try
changing your monotonous masturbation style, which only while sitting on your
stomach and moving your hips back and forth swipe the mattress to stimulate
orgasm without having to penetrate into sex toys.
2. Wet dreams
Both men and women, both
single and married, can experience orgasm while sleeping. This is commonly
called a wet dream.
Wet dreams are usually
subconscious reactions that you cannot control, just like ordinary dreams in
general.
However, many people
report that they can remember their wet dreams until they feel they are
reaching a climax.
You can also
"adjust" your wet dreams through the lucid dream technique, which
makes you have complete control of your own dream flow.
For example by reading
sensual romance, imagining erotic imaginations, or watching blue films before
going to bed. However, the climax in a dream does not always mean you are truly
orgasm in the real world.
Don't get wrong!
Women can also have wet
dreams. In fact, research shows most women first wet dreams before entering the
age of 21 years.
A study published by the
Journal of Sex Research also states that about 37% of women in college age have
reported at least one orgasm during sleep.
According to the
International Society for Sexual Medicine, women who have once awakened from a
wet dream will usually return to experiencing it 3-4 times a year.
3. Sports
Sports can be one
effective way to keep in shape while reaching orgasm without sex.
In the medical world, the
climax after sport is called coregasm. You can feel this pleasure after
training and strengthening the core muscles of your body. For example with
regular squats for women, while for men exercise such as pull ups and sit ups.
This type of exercise
will continue to train the core muscles and the pelvic floor to contract
strongly so that it can trigger an orgasm reaction. One row, two three islands
passed right?
Both men and women can
spontaneously orgasm during intense exercise, but it is indeed noted to occur
less frequently in men.
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