Do you often wonder why
dating is always fruitless? Don't despair, you can still fix it.
It could be that during
this time you turned out to be your wrong strategy.
In order for this date to
go as expected, it seems you need to apply some specific strategies. Jill P.
Weber, Ph.D, a romance expert from the United States provides some successful
dating tips that you need to apply.
Tips for a successful date
1. Optimistic
Weber stated that people
who are usually successful in dating are optimistic people. Optimism means
believing that there is always a chance that the date he does will succeed.
With this optimism, a
person usually has higher self-esteem.
With high self confidence
someone usually looks more attractive because it can freely express and
communicate awkwardly.
The date partner will
easily see your character when that confidence arises.
It's a different story if
it's okay, you've been pessimistic that this date won't work. Especially if you
even feel inferior and not fit enough to date women or men idol hearts.
If this happens, you will
continue to be haunted by the shortcomings and worries you have in mind. As a
result, chat becomes unpleasant because your focus is actually divided.
2. Don't push yourself too much
Have you only been
thinking about the results of each date? If so, from now on change this
thinking. The reason is, if you are too fixated on the results, you will try to
be as perfect as possible.
As a result, you tend to
be stiff and keep the image in front of the other person. You can also pretend
to be a person who you think is coveted by him, even though you usually don't
behave like that.
Remember, having a relationship
doesn't always have to end in courtship. It is true that you are dating to find
a partner; but what is wrong if this date is also used as a place to add
friends.
Try to enjoy the process
and run as it is. That way, you will not be too anxious and desperate in case
the person in front of you is not as expected.
3. Maintain and maintain physical appearance
Physical is the first
thing you see when you meet someone. Therefore, maintaining a physical
appearance by showing tidiness and personal hygiene is a must.
It is like how someone is
interested in entering your house if the page is not maintained.
For that, you can do many
things so that the physical looks attractive.
Exercising regularly,
eating healthy food, keeping your breath fresh, using perfume are ways you can
do it. With an attractive physical appearance, other people will be interested
in being near you.
4. Don't be easily discouraged
Dating is not always
smooth. Therefore, you must give up your mentality to give up.
The eyes of the other
person who imply disinterest and refusal should not be an obstacle, especially
the reason for your inferiority.
You have to believe that
finding the right partner is not easy and requires more effort. For this
reason, don't be easily discouraged just because you are often rejected.
Sometimes it's not your
personality or physique that is less attractive, it's just that you haven't
been met with the right person.
However, you also need to
continue to self-monitor each failure you receive.
Approximately what caused
you to be rejected. After knowing the answer, fix what can be fixed as the next
date.
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